Thursday, July 14, 2005

Learning everyday...

Got irritated by the kids just now.

The more the kids grew up, the more they'll have their own opinions, and the less you'll have control or influence on them -- opinions or viewpoints which may be so different from yours, and you got irritated, disappointed, upset... especially when they insist or disagree with you so strongly even though you have strong and justified reasons.

Perhaps as the kids are growing and learning new things, I as their dad need to learn too...

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At 7/15/2005 03:07:00 AM, Blogger ablogaday said...

I suddenly remember my elder brother told me once when my kids were still small. He said as they grow up, I will see more they'll become an entity, implying that they'll have their own preferences and way of seeing things.

Yes, now I understand more my Heavenly Father. How He respects all the time our free will. And free will is such an amazing gift from Him... Thank you Lord!

 
At 7/16/2005 07:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes! This is a product of free will God gives us. Sometimes, it's amazing, but sometimes, it's annoying... Hahahaha....
Let's learn it thoroughly in our little lives.

 
At 7/20/2005 12:13:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

first, welcome to multiply world.

really agree with you, that even a daddy or mommy has to learn, not just the kids. also, the process could take a whole life, not a year or two, so it's a life-long learning! well, i believe my big brother, you can do it.

hmm......i haven't told you before, i really admire a daddy like you, well, so sorry i'm not that young and you're not that old that we can be father and daughter, haha....of course, you're not perfect as everyone does, but seeing you giving your heart, spending your times with the two daughters, you know you've already done a lot as a father.

i think one day, when your kids grow up, they will know how much love their daddy has given to them.

anyway, glad to see your sharing and email, sorry, i haven't reply you yet......

 

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